Hi John Battam,
Thank you for reaching Microsoft Community. Apologies for the inconvenience this has caused you.
Yes, we do not recommend updating or installing drivers directly from the OEM since this updated drivers may have not been tested yet for the Surface but in this case where the most updated version is the only version that works on the device, I suggest that you keep using the said version from the OEM (22.160.0.4). It could be that this version is still being tested on the Surface and will eventually be released officially also for the Surface through Windows Updates. We don't have specific details yet as to when will be the next update of the Intel AX201 adapter be released.
For the issues that you encountered on the older versions though (22.80.9 and 22.40.7), I suggest that you submit this feedback to let our Microsoft and developers know about this specific issues you encountered on these versions. You can submit this through our Feedback Hub app. Please see: Send feedback to Microsoft with the Feedback Hub app for reference.
Kind regards,
Marrion