Hi! Jay119
Sorry to tell you that you cannot skip the KB4517211 permanently. Please try your best to stop it to install. You can uninstall it again or make a restore point by windows backup in advance. In case it installed again automatically, you can use system restore to back date it . System restore will NOT make change of any user files and safe to use.
Yes, You are right that the recent updates of the 1903 series has a lot problem:
https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/releas...
https://support.microsoft.com/zh-tw/help/451721...
Microsoft is working hard to making a fix to the known issue and will deploy a new update to overwrite the problem. The release date is not known yet, but it should be soon in a reasonable time.
Anthony