Dear Chris Vogt
Thank you for choosing the Microsoft Community. And I am very honored that I can help you again.
Based on your description, I know your requirement. For this, it is the default setting for new outlook and there is no setting for us to change this in new outlook. So sorry to bring you inconvenience for using Microsoft product.
If you think you like the classic version view, for this, please be kindly to revert back to Classic version to use.
And I will report this to Microsoft as soon as possible. Believe through our effort, Microsoft will update this for new outlook as well.
Please be kindly to be patient to wait for some time. Your understanding and co-operation are highly appreciated.
Thank you for your precious time. Have a nice day
Sincerely
Katherine