Hi @Anonymous ,
> I'm looking for some links that show me the exact failover sequence between two nodes.
I do not find any blogs or documents that has the detail step information about this. But we can find the SQL AG failover detail process information from SQL server error log as below screenshots( these are only part of error log) from my environment. Node3\SQL 2019 is the primary node, node1\SQL 2019 is the secondary node. Suggest you doing a failover in your environment, and check the SQL server error log in your environment to get the answer.
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