Hi @john john ,
Per my researsh, this issue is by default. In SharePoint Online there is no solution other than trying to remove records from your parent list. And I found this Remove the list view threshold (5000 by default) in SharePoint UserVoice. From this vote "Being able to index/sort/filter by lookup column types (like person, lookup or managed metadata columns) without being throttled" is in backlog.
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