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I truly appreciate the details you’ve shared, as they help narrow down the research. Based on your description, it appears that the issue of being unable to add attachments larger than 1MB when using an external URL is more likely related to external settings rather than the Exchange Server configuration itself.
To better understand your situation, may I clarify the following:
Do you have any external components such as a reverse proxy, Web Application Firewall (WAF), or load balancer in place?
Please double-check these components, as external traffic usually passes through them, and they often have a default upload size limit of 1MB.
If you don’t have these components, please review the web.config file. If needed, you can increase the relevant settings as shown in the image below.
Reference: Can't add an attachment in Outlook on the web - Exchange | Microsoft Learn
For additional insight and troubleshooting, I recommend capturing data through IIS logs, Event Viewer, and Browser Developer Tools, ...
I hope this helps. If you have further questions or updates, please don’t hesitate to reply.
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