Hello Kristi O'Connell,
Welcome to Microsoft Q&A forum.
It's unfortunate to hear what you've been through. You're doing the right thing that filling a police report.
Please note that this is a user-to-user support forum. Moderators, contributors including external Microsoft employees cannot directly intervene in Microsoft product features or access back-end systems. Our role is limited to providing technical guidance on reported issues, requests, or ideas. To report this, please contact Microsoft Support, they will have the proper tool to help you locating the account if needed for further investigation. For the reimbursement, I'd suggest that you should try to make a claim with your bank on this. Thank you for your understanding.