Hi Kathleen,
Thanks for the update. I think this is a server-side outbound sending restriction on Microsoft’s side, not a device issue.
A. Try to navigate and check at https://account.live.com/Activity. Check specifically for the following:
- “Unusual activity detected”.
- “We blocked your account”.
- “Verify your identity to continue sending”.
Even if my previous Method A looked fine, even one past unusual login can trigger send restriction.
B. Do another sending email test again. But this time send:
- A plain text email.
- No attachment.
- Only 3 to 4 words.
- To a Gmail address (if you have one).
- If it still does not arrive > this confirms server-side block.
C. As a real and only fix, only Microsoft can manually remove the outbound block.
- Use the specific form here: https://support.microsoft.com/home/contact (If you are in U.S.A. just make sure the page has en-us)
- Choose > Outlook.com > Sending & receiving >“Messages aren’t being delivered”.
- Let's hope chat option appears, use this. It's much faster than email.
In regards with almost same effect to your husband's:
- Did you both recently changed password?
- Did you use VPN? What VPN.
- Send multiple similar emails?
- Forward many emails?
- Send to a distribution list?