Hi Jacqui Sattler,
Welcome to Microsoft Q&A.
I understand the shared calendar reminders can be disruptive. Let's go through the options to control them in Outlook 2016.
Option 1: Turn off reminders for the shared calendar
- Go to Calendar view.
- Right-click the shared calendar in the left pane > Properties (or Calendar Properties).
- If you see a "Show reminders" checkbox, uncheck it > OK.
Note: If this option is missing or grayed out, Outlook is likely treating the calendar as a read-only shared stream (common with standard "Share Calendar" invites). In that case, try Option 2.
Option 2: Check Delegate Access settings
- Go to File > Account Settings > Delegate Access.
- If you're listed as a delegate, clear the checkbox for "Delegate receives copies of meeting-related messages..." (wording may vary).
- Click OK.
Option 3: Turn off all reminders globally
If the above options don't apply, you can disable reminders for all calendars:
- Go to File > Options > Advanced.
- Uncheck "Show reminders" under the Reminders section.
- Note: This will turn off reminders for your own calendar as well.
Important: If you have Editor or Owner permissions on the shared calendar, using Dismiss or Dismiss All may affect the shared items for everyone. Only dismiss reminders if you're responsible for managing that calendar.
Please let me know if this proves useful to you, or if you would like further assistance.
I'm looking forward to your reply.
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