Hi Ruan Theron-Smit,
Welcome to Microsoft Q&A forum. I understand how frustrating it can be to be locked out of a child’s account, especially when it was created years ago and no longer receives messages.
There is already a Q&A Assist response on this thread, and its guidance is correct. For Microsoft accounts, including child accounts under Family Safety, support agents are not able to manually reset passwords or bypass security verification. Account access can only be restored through the official recovery and identity verification process for security reasons.
If you have not already done so, may I ask whether you had a chance to try the recovery steps suggested in the Q&A Assist answer? Those steps are the only supported path Microsoft provides for regaining access.
That said, I would like to add a bit of clarification specific to child accounts:
- Even when an account is part of a Microsoft family group, Microsoft support cannot override or reset the child’s password if ownership cannot be verified.
- If the child account cannot be recovered and no longer serves a purpose, there is no supported way to reuse or “unlock” that same email address. A new account would need to be created instead.
- Removing a child account from the family group or closing it does not enable password recovery once the security information is no longer accessible.
- Contributors and moderators on this forum do not have access to Microsoft’s internal account systems and cannot request exceptions on your behalf.
If you prefer to contact Microsoft Support directly regarding this matter, the steps below outline how to reach a live support agent for further assistance:
- Visit the Microsoft Support contact page: Contact - Microsoft Support
- In the search bar provided on the page, type "Account Recovery" and press Enter.
- Click on the "Get Help" button that appears.
- Scroll down the page until you see and click on the "Contact Support" option.
- When prompted to select your product or service, choose "Other Products".
- For the category, choose "Manage Account Security".
- Look for and click on "Chat with a support agent in your web browser".
- When prompted, provide a valid contact email where Microsoft can reach you regarding your case.
- Explain your situation clearly: Be concise but provide all the relevant details.
I hope this explanation helps set clear expectations and points you in the right direction.