Welcome to the Microsoft Q&A forum.
I understand how frustrating it can be to lose access to a personal Outlook.com account, especially when this has been ongoing for some time.
I see there is already a Q&A Assist response above. That guidance is generally correct and aligns with the supported Microsoft account recovery process. Have you already had a chance to try those steps, particularly submitting the account recovery form?
To add some clarification, access to personal Outlook.com accounts is handled entirely through Microsoft’s automated sign‑in and recovery systems. From within this user‑to‑user support forum, there is no visibility into account status, recovery attempts, or security decisions, and there is no way to reset or unlock an account manually on your behalf.
To better understand your situation, could you please clarify:
- Are you seeing a specific error message when trying to sign in?
- Were you able to submit the account recovery form successfully, and did you receive a response?
- Is the Gmail address you mentioned still accessible and receiving recovery or security emails?
This information helps determine whether the issue is related to recovery verification, inactivity, or a blocked sign‑in attempt.
I hope this helps clarify the situation. Feel free to reply with the additional details above, and we can guide you on what makes sense to try next.