Hi Ernie Sachse,
Welcome to the Microsoft Q&A forum.
From your description, the message about “too many sign-in attempts” typically points to a temporary security restriction on the account, which can also prevent password resets or recovery codes from working right away. I can see there is already a Q&A Assist reply, and the general direction in that reply is correct. Before I add a couple of extra details, did you get a chance to try the Q&A Assist steps?
To add a bit more information, here are the relevant official resources and the next steps that you can try:
1, Start with the Microsoft account Sign-in Helper
This tool checks the account status and guides you to the available recovery/unlock options based on what the system detects. You can start here: Microsoft account sign-in helper
If you prefer the broader sign-in article that also routes you back into Sign-in Helper, use: I can’t sign in to my Microsoft account
2, If the screen specifically says the account is locked/blocked
Use the steps in: Microsoft account has been locked
That page covers the standard unlock flow (requesting a security code during sign-in) and what to do when the account is flagged.
3, If you are not receiving verification codes (or “try another method” appears)
Follow the troubleshooting checklist here: Troubleshoot Microsoft verification code issues
If you need background on managing sign-in/security info methods (the verification options tied to the account), see: Microsoft account security info & verification codes
4, If Sign-in Helper cannot restore access and you are pushed to the recovery form
This guide explains what information helps when filling it out: Help with the Microsoft account recovery form
Important: The account recovery form can only be used if two-step verification isn't turned on.
The form requires you to provide as much information as possible to prove that you own the account. Please be patient, as the review process can take some time.
5, If you want someone to contact you/walk through it live
For personal Outlook.com/Hotmail accounts, the supported path is to use the Contact page and follow below steps to reach a live chat agent:
- Visit the Microsoft Support contact page: Contact - Microsoft Support
- In the search bar provided on the page, type "Account Recovery" and press Enter.
- Click on the "Get Help" button that appears.
- Scroll down the page until you see and click on the "Contact Support" option.
- When prompted to select your product or service, choose "Other Products".
- For the category, choose "Manage Account Security".
- Look for and click on "Chat with a support agent in your web browser".
- When prompted, provide a valid contact email where Microsoft can reach you regarding your case.
- Explain your situation clearly: Be concise but provide all the relevant details.
Please note that forum contributors cannot access accounts, remove restrictions, or verify identity on your behalf, so live support is the right channel when self-service tools cannot complete the unlock.
I hope this helps clarify the best path to regain access.