Dear @KarlaN,
Thanks for submitting your concern. I understand how disruptive it can be when delegates do not see the Accept, Decline, or Tentative options on meeting requests they receive on behalf of someone else.
What you are experiencing in New Outlook for Windows and Outlook on the web often occurs when the assistant is not configured as a true Delegate or when the calendar owner’s routing settings deliver an informational copy of the invite. When the message arrives as a non-actionable copy, the RSVP options will not appear, even though they still show correctly on meeting requests sent directly to the delegate.
Below are the steps you can follow to ensure meeting requests become actionable for the delegate:
Option 1: Confirm that the assistant has full Delegate permission
Only Delegates receive actionable meeting requests that include Accept, Tentative, and Decline.
Open New Outlook or OWA.
Go to Calendar > Select Share calendar > Open Sharing and permissions.
Find the assistant’s name and open the permission dropdown.
Ensure the permission level is set to Delegate, not Can edit or other roles.

If the setting is incorrect, update it and save.
If this permission is missing or incorrect, the delegate will receive a non-actionable copy of the meeting request.

Option 2: Adjust the meeting invite routing so the delegate receives an actionable copy
For delegation to work correctly, the calendar owner must choose to send invitations and responses to both themselves and the delegate.
Stay in the Sharing and permissions panel.
Under Delegates, locate the option Send invitations and responses to:
Select Both my delegate and me.
Save the changes.

This setting ensures the delegate receives an actionable meeting request rather than an FYI copy that removes RSVP options.
Share and access a calendar with edit or delegate permissions in Outlook - Microsoft Support
Option 3: Respond from the calendar surface if the message still lacks buttons
Sometimes the email version may remain non actionable even when permissions are correct. In New Outlook and OWA, the calendar still allows a response.
Open the calendar.
Right click the meeting.
Choose Yes, Maybe, or No to send the response.
This method works when the inbox message doesn't show the Accept or Decline buttons.
Option 4: Try responding using Classic Outlook for Windows if available
If the delegate still cannot see the RSVP buttons in New Outlook, they can switch to Classic Outlook and check the behavior there.
In New Outlook, go to Help > Go to Classic Outlook from the top menu bar.

Confirm the switch when prompted.
After Classic Outlook opens, locate the meeting request sent on behalf of the calendar owner.
Open the invitation and verify whether the Accept, Tentative, or Decline buttons appear.
Option 5: Contact Microsoft Support
If the issue still persists, I sincerely recommend reaching out to your IT administrator to create a support ticket via Microsoft 365 Admin Center > Support > Help & Support for further investigation.
A technical support engineer can perform a remote session to investigate the situation, verify the backend configurations, and run any necessary synchronization tools to resolve the problem. If the issue requires further attention, they can escalate it to a specialized team for deeper analysis.
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I hope this information is helpful. If you have any questions or need further support, please don’t hesitate to reach out at any time.
Thank you for your patience and understanding.
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