So it has been 11 days of staying up way too late, barely sleeping and letting my computer scan for almost a day at a time.
Apparently hardware level raid 1 is terrible and never for consumer use. Nobody really talks about the dangers of it.
A painful lesson to learn.
After many attempts at data recovery, the only application that helped me was DMDE, which allowed me to open the disk and copy off the files. It preserved the original file structure too. Much gratitude to DMDE.