Hi @ZAFER SAĞLAM ,
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According to your description, I have done a lot research and test on Outlook client(such as using delegate) but didn't find such an option to set notification when others change my shared calendar. I'm afraid this cannot be done directly on the outlook client. If you don't trust the colleague, the best way is not to give him "editor" permission.
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