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If you have another 3rd party Anti-Virus software, please follow the steps below on how to remove it;
Press the Windows key, type "Add or remove programs", hit Enter.
Search for your antivirus's name (Norton, McAfee, Avast, AVG, Kaspersky, etc.).
Click it → Uninstall, and follow the prompts.
Please restart your laptop after uninstalling; this matters, since leftover background services can keep Defender suppressed until reboot.