Hi LDrago,
Based on the information provided, the issue does sound less like a browser or device problem and more like the privacy setting is not being retained on the account profile after it is submitted.
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For account-specific Xbox privacy profile issues, the recommended path is to contact Xbox Support and provide screenshots showing the setting saving and then reverting, along with confirmation that the account is not part of a family group. This helps the support team investigate potential account-side synchronization or profile configuration issues.
I understand this can be frustrating after already trying multiple devices and browsers. Feel free to ask me by clicking "Add Comment" or "Add Answer" if you cannot add comment so your response will be visible. Thanks for your effort.
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