Managing personal Outlook.com account settings, security, and privacy
Hi Ann Clarke,
I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you've experienced recovering your account. I completely understand how frustrating it is to be directed back into the recovery process, especially when you're concerned that the account may have been compromised and critical account information has been changed.
Microsoft's account recovery systems are designed with strict security requirements to help protect customer data and prevent unauthorized access. Unfortunately, if security information, aliases, or other account details have been changed, the automated recovery process may be unable to verify ownership using the information provided. In some situations, this can result in the "account does not exist" message that you're seeing.
For consumer Microsoft accounts, access can only be restored when sufficient ownership verification can be completed. Neither community moderators nor Microsoft support agents can manually bypass these security checks or grant access to an account without the required verification evidence. This limitation exists to help ensure that accounts and the data they contain remain protected from unauthorized recovery attempts.
If you haven't already done so, you may want to review the account recovery options available through Microsoft's recovery workflows and ensure you're using any historical information associated with the account, including previous aliases, recovery email addresses, phone numbers, billing information, or Microsoft 365 subscription details that may help establish ownership.
Help with the Microsoft account recovery form
I hope you're able to regain access to the account, and thank you for sharing your experience with the community.