Melissa, perhaps this answer is not what you are looking for, but I wouldn't do it. You have already worked out that the calendar view has problems and difficulties. Nothing wrong with the MSP software. It's just that the format of the view is not amenable to the amount and type of data that you are trying to cram into it. And it is also not very economical with the real estate, ie a lot of white space, and the problems continue when you try to print it.
Frankly, it is hardly ever used. Similarly, the network diagram view is useful sometimes in some situations, but it takes up a lot of space and creates a lot of blank space. The Gantt chart view, or a customised version of it, is much more compact and informative. And the task usage and resource usage views are very useful and compact.