Hello cookham,
Changing Your MSN Messenger Sign In Settings
1. Open MSN Messenger
2. Click the down arrow next to your current status (i.e. Available, Appear Offline)
3. Click Options
4. Click on Sign In
5. Under the General heading you can choose to remove the checkmark from the boxes next to Automatically run Windows Live Messenger when I log into Windows or Allow automatic sign in when connected to the internet.
6. Changing either of these options will prevent you from automatically being signed into Hotmail.
Hope this helps you. Let us know either way. Make it a great day!
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