Hello SmellyFox,
I'm John an Independent Advisor and a Microsoft user like you. I'll be happy to assist you today. I understand you have a problem with explorer crash after installing KB4579311.
It would be best to temporary pause updates until a fix is release about the issue. You can pause updates up to 35 days by clicking "Pause updates" multiple times
https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/man...
or to prevent the KB4579311 update from being reinstalled by Windows Update, use the “Show or Hide Updates” troubleshooter to hide the update. Window Update won’t install hidden updates.
https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/help/318392...
I would also recommend to send comments and suggestions about the issue through Feedback Hub App. Hopefully Microsoft will notice this and release a fix soon.
Kindly let me know if this helps or if you have any further concerns.
Sincerely
John DeV
Independent Advisor