Dear @Lori Hunt,
Thank you for reaching out to the Microsoft Q&A forum. I am happy to assist you.
Regarding the issue where Word is removing or losing your numbering format, please try using “Define New Multilevel List” instead of “Define New List Style.” After that, link each list level to a unique paragraph style and then reapply the styles throughout the document. This method helps ensure that Word preserves the numbering structure when saving the file.
There is a previous discussion from another user experiencing a similar issue, which provides additional details about how Word handles list styles. You may find it helpful for reference: Ms Word - Styles - MultiLevel Numbering
To help isolate the problem, could you please confirm the following?
- Does the issue occur for all users, devices, and files, or is it limited to a specific user, specific device, or specific document?
- Have you tried defining the list style in Word for the web, or opening the affected file in Word for the web to see if the formatting persists?
In the meantime, please also try repairing Office to check if it resolves the formatting behavior. Visit this link to learn more: Repair an Office application
Also, please ensure that your Word application is updated to the latest version. For detailed instruction, visit here: How to update Microsoft 365 or Office for Windows
Additionally, please try opening Word in Safe Mode to check whether any add‑ins are causing the issue.
Visit here to learn more: Open Office apps in safe mode on a Windows PC
If the numbering works correctly in Safe Mode, please disable your Word add‑ins one by one and test again to identify which add‑in is causing the problem.
More details at: View, manage, and install add-ins for Excel, PowerPoint, and Word
Providing these details will enable us to offer the most accurate next steps and, if necessary, route your request to the appropriate team for further assistance. Looking forward to your response so we can assist you further!