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I understand that you are looking for a way to have a single Active Directory user for users who have mailboxes on both of their Office 365 tenants.
You can migrate mailboxes from one Microsoft 365 or Office 365 organization to another
If you want collaboration and access to applications across different tenants, while maintaining the organization’s ability to evolve and manage user lifecycles efficiently you can use Cross-tenant synchronization This feature is particularly useful for organizations that own multiple Microsoft Entra tenants and wish to streamline intra-organization cross-tenant application access.
Also, you can use Microsoft Entra B2B collaboration which allow organizations to securely share their applications and services with external partners and guests.
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