I wish I could share good news, but the truth is no one can get you the bitlocker key, including Microsoft staff/support. https://support.microsoft.com/windows/find-your-bitlocker-recovery-key-6b71ad27-0b89-ea08-f143-056f5ab347d6 The link here says:"Important: Microsoft Support doesn't have the ability to retrieve, provide, or recreate a lost BitLocker recovery key."
You can use this to see if you can recover the username: https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/account-billing/forgotten-your-microsoft-account-username-b2049472-3b8f-27d3-61c6-67a668453f4c
While chance is slim, but if you set it up with school or work account via Microsoft 365 apps, it is worth checking here as well https://aka.ms/aadrecoverykey sign in with your work/school email credential in that case, as your key might be transfered to save here instead.