@KT - Thanks for reaching out to us.
For minor/revision version upgrade, the upgrade should be handsfree. ISV shouldn't need to contact your customer to provide manual upgrade solution.
For major version upgrade where there are breaking changes, they could include their documentation link in their plan to provide guidance on how to upgrade their platform.
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