Hi @John Gilmour
they will send me a "code" to my BT (not Outlook) email address
Have you tried to sign in your BT email address online? Then check whether you can access to live emails from Microsoft.
Besides, please refer to this article: Troubleshooting verification code issues, hope the information could be helpful to you.
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