Sending, receiving, and organizing email in Outlook.com
@Diana Armitage said
the activity doesn't show up under recent activity
Microsoft nerfed the Recent Activity page. It's now totally useless for routine monitoring.
"unusual sign in" doesn't mean that they got into your account. Microsoft uses such ambiguous language in their notification emails that they are almost meaningless.
About all you can do is check your Recent Activity page for a "Successful Login", that wasn't you.