this fixed the problem
"Press the Windows key and type cmd. Right-click on "Command Prompt" and select "Run as administrator." In the Command Prompt window, type powercfg -restoredefaultschemes and press Enter. Restart your computer and check if the Sleep option is available."
Ran Win+P again and it did not give an error and I was able to restore Duplicate screens. So simple, and I did not have to do anything scary like deleting drivers! No idea what caused the problem, but so glad it was fixed so simply.