Hi,
I spent a couple hours on the phone with Microsoft support for a similar problem. Their phone support people are great by the way. I have a Surface Book 2 15" 1TB. I was trying to run a 1080P plasma TV and a 4K 60 hz LG monitor. You would think that with the Nvidia processor that should be fine. You would be wrong. Bottom line, Microsoft finally admitted that the Surface would always default to the Intel display adapter and that can't be changed. The best solution I found was to use two Surface mini display to hdmi (active) adapters. That allows me to have both connected with the 4K limited to 30 hz at 4K. I'm not gaming so it's not too bad. If I really need 60 hz I can unplug the TV. You have to use two active adapters. If you try to use a display port cable it won't work. I hope they will address the display adapter issue but it seems unlikely. Even playing a visual novel with 3D selecting the Nvidia processor will drain the battery and show zero charging. Hope this is some help.
Best,
Martin