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Are you aware of the one touch shortcut key (Fn + the function key or directly the function key) that is used to control wireless options (WLAN, Bluetooth, WWAN)? If that is disabled, the Bluetooth icon will disappear from the taskbar, even if you reinstall/update drivers. Make sure you enable the wireless and you can see the Bluetooth icon in taskbar.
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