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everyone who is running windows xp and "windows server 2003" is experiencing the same problem with using the "microsoft update" website..
a simple way to work around the problem is to enable windows "automatic updates".. windows "automatic updates" will download any available updates..
besides enabling "automatic updates" in the "system" settings, in "control panel", the "automatic updates" service should be set to "startup type"-"automatic" and should be running..
after the windows-updates have been installed, you can turn of "automatic updates", if you want to..
the "background intelligent transfer service" (BITS) should be set to "startup type"-"manual".. it does not need to be running.. it will start running automatically when needed..
you can prompt windows "automatic updates" to check for- and download available windows-updates by using "command prompt" with the command "wuauclt.exe /detectnow" (minus quotations)..
enabling windows "automatic updates" and letting it download any available windows-updates is the best way to work around the problem.. we will have to wait for microsoft to fix the problem on their end..
if using windows "automatic updates" is not an option, another option is to:
stop the "windows updates" service, and stop the "background intelligent transfer service" (BITS), if needed, then rename the "SoftwareDistribution" folder, at "c:\windows\SoftwareDistribution" (like "XXXSoftwareDistribution" ), then check for updates at the "windows update" website.. NOT the "microsoft update" website, but at the "windows update" website.. if you try using the "microsoft update" website, all you will get is an error-message..
you may have to repeat the process of renaming the "software distribution" folder in order to be able to access the "windows update" website (NOT the "microsoft update" website! ).. otherwise, if your experience is like mine was, you will be redirected to the "microsoft update" website when trying to access the "windows update" website.. use the "windows update" website, not the "microsoft update" website..
here is some related content:
https://isc.sans.edu/forums/diary/Microsoft+November+out-of-cycle+patch+MS14-068/18967