I have found the solution, unfortunately it is not software-sided problem. there headphones have wierd kind of protection for the cable from being ripped of. First off it is zip-tied, then it is sticked on the glue, which weakness the cable isolator and
(in time of using them) breaks connection through the microphone (the one under first isolation), while audio cables are under seccond isolation, so it still works.
I had to cut it off and rewire it again, works perfecty.