Hi Aaron
My name is Andre Da Costa; an Independent Consultant, Windows Insider MVP and Windows & Devices for IT MVP. I'm here to help you with your problem.
Click Start
Type: cmd
Right click CMD
Click Run as administrator
At the command prompt, type each command then hit Enter:
ipconfig /flushdns
ipconfig /registerdns
ipconfig /release
ipconfig /renew
NETSH winsock reset catalog
NETSH int ipv4 reset reset.log
NETSH int ipv6 reset reset.log
Hit Enter
Exit the prompt then restart
Disable Energy Efficient Ethernet in "Client for Microsoft Networks"
Press Windows key + X
Click Device Manager, expand Network Adapters, right-click the adapter > Properties > Power Management, and then clear the Allow the computer to turn off this device to save power check box.
If you don't have that option, see other ways to disable it:
https://blogs.technet.microsoft.com/exchange/20...
If the network connection is slow or lagging, check if Windows 10 is downloading Windows Update or the Microsoft Store is downloading updates. These can sometimes affect the performance your network connection.
Press Windows key + X
Click Command Prompt (Admin)
Type the following commands, pressing Enter after each command:
netsh int ip reset reset.txt
netsh winsock reset
netsh advfirewall reset
- There appears to be some congestion on your home network that is preventing you from successfully accessing the other machine. This can depend on the time of the day you might be attempting to remotely connect to the other machine. Remember, you share your bandwidth with other computers in neighbourhood, so there might be throttling especially with multiple machines.
Also, you sharing bandwidth with several machines on the network, so, maybe what you want to do is take some of those machines off the network. Pressing Windows key + A > toggle on Airplane mode can do this.
Also, make sure no one else is actually connecting to your network, you can do this by securing your router:
https://www.groovypost.com/howto/secure-wi-fi-r...
- Your router might be out of date, needs to be updated with a new firmware or replaced.
There might be interference from other devices within your environment or if you are connecting to the other machine remotely, you might actually be too far away from the router.
You can try restarting both the router and modem or consider replacing it all together since it might be the bottleneck.
- The software running on all devices might need updating or are running older outdated versions of Windows 10. Make sure they each updated to the latest versions.
Click Start > Settings > Update & security > Windows Update > Check for updates
Download and install any pending updates
Restart your computer
Go to the following page then click 'Update Now'
https://www.microsoft.com/software-download/win...
Other potential causes might be beyond control, such as your neighbour performing high bandwidth activities like downloading a lot of large content.