1909 is the latest version of Windows so feel free to update to this if possible.
As requested is the controller appearing within Steam?
You may be better using an official PS4 controller.
There’s DS4 for Windows but this requires the controller to be connected via USB.
Note: This is a non-Microsoft website. The page appears to be providing accurate, safe information. Watch out for ads on the site that may advertise products frequently classified as a PUP (Potentially Unwanted Products).
Please do not download any repair tool which is offered by this site other than the ones I mention/recommend..
Thoroughly research any product which is mentioned here before you decide to download and install it.