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You can't unless you remove the cert. Do not remove the built-in cert however. The Exchange transport will pick the certificate that "fits" the best, based on the if its a third party certificate, the expiration date and if a subject name on the certificate matches what is set for the FQDN on the connector used.
Having said all that, I dont quite understand your scenario. What exactly is this user doing when the error is surfaced and the built-in SMTP cert is being used?