Hello, thank you for the speedy reply, I have not quite figured it out I don't think.
My problem is that integrated graphics are being used when my graphics card is not being used,(as stated above)

this picture shows what I mean (although while I was running it earlier today the IGP was maxed out at 100%
I have switched everything I can in the NVIDIA control panel to use the high-performance card.

The picture above shows what I mean when I say I cannot switch some programs to high-performance. (the #2 step drop-down menu is locked)
So my question is "Is there a way that I have not thought of the reduce the burden of the windows system on my integrated graphics(especially when using a second wireless display)" and if the only way to do that is to switch the NVIDIA control panel settings
to High-performance settings, my second question is "how (if possible) do I switch the certain programs that are locked (as seen with above pic) to use the High-performance Graphics.
*also to note)--I have set the global settings in NVIDIA control panel to High-Performance.
*I do have switchable graphics (bc both my IGP and NVIDIA are listed in my device manager)