Hi Kenneth. I'm Greg, 10 years awarded Windows MVP, specializing in Installation, Performance, Troubleshooting and Activation, here to help you.
If you want to complain to Microsoft use the Feedback Hub app in Start Menu where developers are tasked to process consumer feedback. But Microsoft will not even see it here because this is a tech forums where we are mostly volunteers trying to help solve your problems.
This is strictly an end-consumer forums. If you are in an organizational environment then you should ask this at our sister forums for IT Professionals, Q&A forums here: https://docs.microsoft.com/th-th/answers/index....
There are also equally good (and sometimes busier) IT Pro forums here:
https://www.techrepublic.com/forums/
Presently all ways for consumers to control Updates are here:
https://www.techrepublic.com/article/how-to-con...
https://www.zdnet.com/article/how-to-take-contr...
If you've had enough you can shut them off by this method which is the only stable way to turn off Updates for as long as you want:
https://www.howtogeek.com/226722/how-when-and-w... This way you can turn them back on long enough to Update when you have time to do this.
I hope this helps. Feel free to ask back any questions and keep me posted. I will keep working with you until it's resolved.
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