my MineCraft multiplayer is grayed out even when allowed.

I had already tried that and it did not seem to work

Hi, I am Van. I'll be glad to assist you today.

This normally happens if the Multiplayer option is disabled in your Xbox privacy settings. Please follow the steps below to enable this option.

1. log in to your Microsoft account to xbox.com
2. Once signed in, click your profile picture in the upper-right corner. Then select your Xbox profile.
3. In the Xbox profile, click the privacy settings
4. In the Privacy & online safety click the "Xbox Series X|S, Xbox One/Windows 10 Online Safety" tab
5. Scroll down and look for the "You can join multiplayer games" option, then click Allow to enable it. Click submit at the bottom of the page to save the setting
6. Relaunch the game and check if you can now play in multiplayer.

Note: You will not be able to see the Privacy & Online Safety section if you are a member of the family group. You will need to ask the organizer of the family group to edit the settings for you.

Please let me know if you need any further assistance. I will be glad to assist.

I am glad that you have sorted out the issue. Should you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to get back to us.

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