Dear TonyPettipiece
Thank you for posting in the Microsoft Community.
I understand your situation and needs. But because Microsoft Community is a technical forum for individuals. And all email, phone and other private information is hidden. So we don't have access to find the location of the email server you mentioned. Thank you for your understanding.
You can contact Microsoft Online Support for feedback on your situation. They will chat with you individually on their webpage and provide you with live help.
You can contact Microsoft Online Technical Support by clicking on the link below.
Contact - Microsoft Support
- In the "We're here for you" box below, enter “MSA”, click Get Help, and then click Sign to contact Support.
- In this section, you will need to register for a personal Microsoft account. Note: You can only register with a personal MSA, a corporate account will not display correctly. If you are unable to connect to this account, you can use another account or create a new account to run.
- Under "Products and Services", select "Other Products", select "Manage Account Security" as the category and click Confirm.
- You can access the chat window by selecting " Chat with a Support agent in your Web Browser". Note: Please contact during local business hours.
I hope that my reply will be helpful to you.
Best Regards,
Simon.W - MSFT | Microsoft Community Support Specialist