Using Classic Outlook on Windows for personal email, calendar, and contact management
Hello Default username02743
Thank you for posting in the Microsoft Community.
Based on the details you've shared, it seems you're experiencing mail flow issues in your Exchange Server 2019 DAG, with messages getting stuck in the queue on MBX2.
However, I'd like to sincerely point out that since you've posted this in the Outlook / Windows / Classic Outlook for / For business, community members here primarily focus on Microsoft 365 Business Exchange Online, Outlook and mail flow issues.
Since your concern is related to an on-premises Exchange Server setup, I recommend posting your question in the Exchange Server - Microsoft Q&A Community: Exchange Server - Microsoft Q&A
Experts in that forum specialize in Exchange Server deployments and Active Directory schema extensions, so you'll likely receive more precise guidance.
I apologize for redirecting you to another community, but this will ensure faster and more effective assistance from experts in Exchange Server.
Thank you for your understanding and cooperation. Have a great day!