@Madman2112
Thank you for posting in Microsoft Q&A forum.
Please try below steps:
- Open IIS
- Click on Application Pools
- Click on WsusPool
- Click Advanced Settings
- Scroll down and increase the Private Memory Limit and decrease the Regular Time Interval.
For more details, refer to the link, you may also try other solutions as the link mentioned:
(Third-party link, just for your reference)
https://www.itsmarttricks.com/fix-wsus-connection-error-reset-server-node-on-windows-server-2012/
If it doesn't work. you may try to set the limit memory to 0 like below thread suggested:
https://social.technet.microsoft.com/Forums/lync/en-US/7226dc0d-e3c5-40c2-817d-048bb0a74980/error-connection-error-click-reset-server-node-to-try-to-connect-to-the-server-again?forum=winserverwsus
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