Hello @Peter Torok ,
Thanks for reaching out!
As per my understanding, it is not possible to create calendar event and accept that event (by default) for some other user. We can't use responseStatus property in request body while creating an event, as it's a response type property (We get this property in API response and this property is not meant to be use in request body). Similarly, status property inside Attendees property array is also a response type property and can't be used in request body.
Hope this helps.
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