Hello Michael,
Unfortunately the Remote Desktop app for iOS will use the default screen resolution for the iPad screen into the expanded screen. This is a "by Design" issue.
My recommendation would be to open a Feature request through: https://techcommunity.microsoft.com/t5/windows-365-feature-requests/idb-p/Windows365Requests in order to request that functionality in further releases.
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