This isn't really about where the databases are active, Sailpoint wont care about that, it just needs the ability to connect to client endpoint so the "active-active" piece doesnt apply.
What's needed is a single load balanced FQDN pool that all the server in both data centers are members of. You may already have that configured.
Sailpoint then connects to the load balanced pool and it doesn't matter if one Data center is down, it can still connect to the remaining servers in the pool that are up.