What is the version of SharePoint? Whether this issue occurs on all columns? Whether this column has JSON formatting.
Based on your description, I understand that when you edit a date and time column, it shows "Default Value is not a valid date" error message.
Please provide some screenshots about the column settings to further troubleshooting.
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