I don't think remote access
has any effect at all. I believe it relates to "remote server" a feature that pre-dates linked server, and which has been removed from the product. I could discern any difference when I set it to 0. That said, leave it 1, and don't touch it.
The server option rpc out
controls whether you can call stored procedures on the remove server. Depending on how you set up your linked server, this option may default to 1 or 0, but it must be 1 for stored procedure calls to be possible.
To my knowing rpc in
has no effect.