Found the problem or better the modbus gateway supplier did (Socomec).
Dave you're wrong, there is something different, it's called ECN (Explicit Congestion Notification) and it is enabled by default on servers, but not on the workstations.
netsh interface tcp show global
(to check)
netsh interface tcp set global ecncapability=disabled
(to disable)
source: https://support.softwaretoolbox.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/3320