- Ensure all mailboxes are moved to the new servers, including the arbitration mailboxes
- Remove the 2016 servers as source servers in any send connector
- Ensure all clients are using the new servers and not the old ones. Remove the 2016 servers from any load balancing pools.
- Remove the 2106 servers from the DAG (https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/powershell/module/exchange/remove-databaseavailabilitygroupserver?view=exchange-ps)
- Remove the DAG itself: https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/exchange/high-availability/manage-ha/remove-dags?view=exchserver-2019
- Uninstall Exchange from the servers.
If in Hybrid mode, re-run the Hybris Wizard before starting this and set to the 2019 servers only.