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Hi,
For "We are having trouble connecting", it always mean that your computer doesn't recognize your iPhone.
Message can occur before copying starts or during the copying. It may be related to the driver or application. Please check the information in the link below:
https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204095
Hope this helps and please help to accept as Answer if the response is useful.
Best Regards,
Carl