Hi @Beccy Scobell,
Thank you for posting in this community.
Unfortunately, SharePoint doesn't have an out-of-the-box way to set up templates for sharing message at the moment. This is designed by SharePoint, and we are unable to change it at this time.
Thank you for your kind understanding.
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